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What makes you different?

14.06.2025 18:58

What makes you different?

So, keep on experimenting.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

What role did China play in the signing of the "Beijing Declaration" between Fatah and Hamas? What other information is worth noting for talks among Palestinian factions in Beijing?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

How could Trump, with his deplorable garbage supporters, manage to win an election?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Why The Simpsons stopped producing Maude Flanders episodes?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Agree?

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Are there any real-life examples of prisoners who escaped from hospitals and were never caught?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Can you make it?

What are mean nicknames to call my sister? She is always so mean to me.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

What if he’d come outside?

What is the best way to keep my vagina clean and fresh?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Why do untreated borderlines always blame their partners when they actually think they are normal?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Is visiting holy shrines (dargahs) or graves haraam in Islam?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Why is my Whirlpool fridge not cooling but the freezer works? What is the solution?

So, what actually makes us all different?

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Why do men love boobs (irrespective of big or small)?

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Do you think most people would rather be a certain race or are most people happy with the race they are?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Can a dental anesthesia injection cause nerve damage? After receiving an injection in my gums I felt a sharp tingle going from the gum to my lower lip, and now sometimes I get a bit of itchiness and discomfort in my lower lip. What is it?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

How do I know if I am a bitch? I try to be a nice person but people often jokingly call me a bitch. My family calls me a bitch sometimes too.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Why do companies cull employees during financial downturns without saying so?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

What makes you YOU.